The
Story of Eiyah (Part II)
By nightfall, her
parents, worried because she had never been late before, were raising the alarm
wherever they could. In the village square, while the girls of the village
gossipped wildly that she must have been drowned in the river or eaten by
hyenas, a few of them indulging in overdramatic remorseful tears (“I should
have helped her –everyone knows how dangerous it can be... poor girl!”) the men
were swiftly gathered together by Ngoima (my great-grandfather) who was a close
personal friend of Eiyah’s father’s, and a wildy respected village elder.
Organising them promptly into three groups, he sent one to drag the river,
another to retrace her path within the forest, and search there, and the last
to wander and enquire further and wider from the village, looking for any signs
that she had left or been forcefully made to leave the village. The village
matrons swiftly gathered about Eiyah’s mother, who was inconsolable,
alternatively comforting her, and indulging in their own musings about what
could possibly have happened.
“In my day it wasn’t
uncommon for the Masaai to come and steal away Kikuyu girls,” said one elderly
woman, warming her hands around a large mug of tea. “I remember at one point
having to go everywhere with two of my brothers for protection... but that
hasn’t happened for years now. Surely it couldn’t have happened to Eiyah? It’s
very strange.”
“IT’S STRANGE BECAUSE
IT’S EIYAH, MOTHER!” a younger woman yelled into her good ear. She threw a
mischievous glance sideways, and continued in a barely hushed tone. “Now if it
had been Nyakio...”
Nyakio’s mother whose
looks her daughter had inherited,
immediately reacted.
“And what exactly do
you mean by that, you ugly old witch?” She screamed, coming to stand before the
gossip, arms aggressively akimbo. The gossip was not known for backing down.
“I was simply saying
that Nyakio is just the type of girl who would disappear with a man. You know
it as well as I do. That’s why you’re always checking up on her.”
“You’re just spiteful
because your own daughter’s not much better looking than Eiyah!” Nyakio’s
mother spat. A friend of hers came to pinch her.
“Shut up!” She
whispered viciously. “Eiyah’s mother’s right
there.” Nyakio’s mother looked apologetically in that direction, and sighed
in relief when she saw the poor woman deep in conversation with another friend.
With all the comings and goings, it wasn’t noticed that four of the village’s
young men were absent. Blithely unaware of the level of chaos they had
initiated, they were, in fact, drinking beer at Njao’s house, while discussing
his extraordinary choice, and what must be done next. Naturally, the first
thing to do was to inform Njao Senior of the new tenant.
Dude 1 (with an anticipatory grin): He’ll be piiiissed!
Dude 2 (likewise): Hell, I’d be pissed if my son eloped...
Dude 3 (wryly): It’s not that Njao eloped, it’s whom he brought home.
Njao (sharply): Shut up. You know nothing about it.
Dude 1: So
tell us!!!
Njao (sighing): You see all those girls in the village? Most of them are beautiful. Much
more beautiful than Wairimu...
Dude 2:
Who’s Wairimu?
Njao: Wairimu
is Eiyah’s real name, and the only one you’re allowed to use from now on.
Dude 3: Wairimu,
huh?
Njao:
Wairimu. Those girls, they’re beautiful now, but beauty fades, and what you’re
left with is the real person. Have you
noticed how they work?
Dude 1 (defensively): They work hard!
Njao (nodding): They work hard –but Wairimu works harder, and better. Have you noticed
how they treat their parents?
Dude 2:
They’re good girls, Njao. You can’t say they’re disrespectful at all.
Njao: No.
But Wairimu treats her parents respectfully and lovingly. She’s warm. When they
get money, how do the other girls behave?
Dude 3: Who
knows what girls spend their money on?
Njao:
Wairimu doesn’t spend hers on hair treatments and knick knacks and more clothes
than she needs. She spend it on practical things for the home, and treats her
littke brothers with snacks. In fact, she almost never spend money on herself.
She is thoughtful and giving. Ans what
ios she doing when the other girls are gossiping every evening in one of their
houses? Or at a village dance? She’s babysitting her siblings, and other
people’s siblings, and preparing for the next day.
Dude 1 (pensively): That’s true.
Njao: You
know how noone ever helps her at the river, which is why she usually makes two
trips?
Dude 2:
Girls are cats, even they know that.
Njao:
Wouldn’t that just make you angry?
Dude 3 (uncomfortably): Certainly it’s not a very nice thing...
Njao: But
she responds to this by making sure that she helps others. The widows who have
no one to help them fetch water, and the elder women who run out of firewood.
She is fundamentally kind. So she’s the woman I’m going to marry, and the one I
want to care for my children. The rest of you can settle for the gossiping
harpies that look so good in sheep’s clothing, who like to put themselves
forward but help no one, and whose ambition in life is to be the most
well-dressed girl at the village dance.
Dude 1:
They’re not that bad... (uncertainly) Are they?
Dude 2: No,
of course not. They’re fine... Right?
Dude 3: I
don’t know. All this beer is making me fuzzy and suddenly panicky about
marriage. (Brightening) You might just offer it to your Dad before you break
the news, Njao.
Njao (grinning): I certainly will!
With all the beer,
the talk, and the hurried preparations that had to be gotten into, once Njao’s
household had been informed, it was quite forgotten that, to the rest of the
village, Eiyah was plainly missing. A week later, Njao Senior, dressed to the
tens and wearing his humblest, most deprecating expression, slowly made his way
to Eiyah’s home.
My grandfather had beautiful, calm
brown eyes, in which mischief announced itself occasionally with a bright
spark, inherited, by the way, by most of his offspring, and theirs. Still, it
was unusual for any light of alarm to register within them, which is exactly
what happened on a certain cloudy morning, as he witnessed his friend making a
slow but determined way up the hill towards his home. Whatever this visit
announced, it wasn’t good news, and as he pressed doggedly uphill, each achy
bend of his friend’s back seemed to emphasise this. By the time he had reached
the Ngoima homestead, Eiyah’s father may have been physically battered, but his
eyes were as young and bright with indignation as that in any young man’s eye
who had been rejected as a mate. My grandfather awaited him with refreshments
and a sturdy stool at the ready, and rose to hug his friend in a warm welcome
embrace.
“My friend, do not speak but sit down and wet your mouth!
I am grateful for your visit,” my grandfather stated almost impatiently,
adhering to custom even as died for news. But when it had been to him, he sat
back, mischief running rampant within those wide brown eyes. Slowly,
meaningfully, he leaned forward toward his friend. Though a kind hearted and
very generous man, his adherence to the truth in any matter not only served his
reputation, which had risen him to the status of a venerated village elder, but
also satisfied this mischievous streak in him, that couldn’t resist finding the
humour in his fellow humans’ misfortunes. Now, though knowing that Eiyah’s
looks were a sore subject, he said, containing a grin:
“A hunter comes to take a hyena out of your home...
and you’re complaining?”
For a moment, his friend stared
at him as though he hardly knew him.
“What?”
My grandfather sat back ad took
a swig from his calabash of beer.
“My friend... The handsomest, most eligible man in
the village has claimed your daughter. What are you complaining about? Indeed,
had anyone claimed her –what would you be complaining about? That they didn’t
do it in the proper traditional manner?” He noticed his friend’s level of
outrage and coughed out some of the mischief that had been brewing within him.
“This is indeed so, and there is nothing for it but to make Njao’s family pay
for it.”
“So you agree that this is improper?” Spluttered
Eiyah’s father. “I mean, it is totally IMPROPER!!! You can’t go around
kidnapping fair maidens in this village, and getting away with such behaviour!”
My grandfather choked at this description of Eiyah,
then covered his amusement with a ferocious expression, in support of his
friend.
“Absolutely NOT. What will they think of next?” He
roared. He put a confident hand on his friend’s arm. “We will make them pay –Oh
they will PAY, my friend...” Just as he wished, Eiyah’s father was now
comfortable enough to take a large, relieved swig of his own calabash of beer.
If my grandfather approved, this horrendous action against his Eiyah would be
revenged. “But my friend,” Grandfather went on, “ do not take this all so
sorely to heart. The man kidnapped your daughter, but he has not returned her
–he has not used her ill. His intentions are pure, since he has sent his father
to you, and this deserves some credit.”
Eiyah’s father, mellowed by the beer, and his wise
friend’s comforting words, seemed to think likewise. Banging his stick on the
ground, he nevertheless would roar.
“Still, they must PAY”
My
grandfather grinned.
“And they will.”
Indeed, over the next few
weeks, the two send Njao’s father up and downhill, bending over backwards to
correct his son’s indiscretion. There were goats demanded to restore the breach
in tradition. There were goats asked for, on behalf of the young men who had
been gathered onto the village square, and sent looking for Eiyah in the
forest, the river and abroad. There were punitive damages. There were penalties
for the emotional trauma of Eiyah’s parents and siblings. In fact, by the time
Eiyah’s family had done with their demands, Eiyah’s dowry had become one of the
most expensive in the history of the village. Those beauties that had previously
reserved themselves for Njao’s favour had begun by being amused by the entire
fiasco. They were now completely enraged, not only because there would actually
be a wedding taking place, but because of the icing on the cake that was
Eiyah’s severally discussed dowry. While the proudest girls took to their beds
in a tantrum, wiser ones, such as Nyakio, promptly became engaged to Njao’s
friends. Influence was almost as good a currency as popularity, and admiration
could be shared.
And so Eiyah was married in
unparalled pomp and ceremony, disbelieving, herself in all that was suddenly
happening to her. Njao may have kidnapped her, but she had fallen in love with
him more deeply than she knew herself capable of. Indeed, this man loved her,
and more than this, he appreciated her. She knew, quite soon in her marriage,
that Njao had not chosen idly, but that he had been watching her for years. He
honoured her as a hard-working mate and wife, and glporied in the tall, strong
sons that she gave him, almost as if he knew of their coming. Furthermore, Njao
was one of the only men in the village who never took another wife. Eiyah was
the one for him, and as she grew in this confidence, her happiness became
complete.
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